I was six months pregnant when my sister-in-law locked me out on the balcony in the freezing cold and said, “Maybe a little suffering will toughen you up.”

So if you’ve ever had someone dismiss dangerous behavior because “that’s just how family is,” don’t ignore that warning in your gut. Boundaries don’t just protect feelings—they can save lives. And tell me honestly: if you were in my place, would you ever forgive her?